I am just a big mess tonight. I have been crying for hours. A freaking mess. Why? Great question- and when you find out, let me know. My poor husband doesn't want to even leave me because he is so worried about me. And I have no idea what is wrong with me right now. It's one of those days where I want to curl up in a ball and cry for hours. I pretty much have. I have an emotional headache, my eyes hurt, my nose is running. *sigh* I'm ready to be done.
Anybody got any magical cures for tears?
Anybody got any magical cures for tears?
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Hey Mini!
I can't say that I can relate experientially, but I have been married for 28 years, so, I guess that makes me pretty much of an expert on these kinds of things (at least from a man's point of view).
Realize that what you are going through is natural. Go outside and take a walk. Talk to God and let Him talk to you. While you're doing that, focus on all of the blessings you have in your life, starting with the smallest ones and working your way up to the biggest.
Tell your husband you are going to be fine. He just needs to give you some space and allow you to get through it on your own. There is nothing he can do to help you more than simply loving you and understanding your fragile emotions at times like that.
When everything else is said and done, it really just amounts to getting through it. It will pass, and you will be fine. If it doesn't pass fairly quickly, you may be dealing with a medical problem like depression. That can be very serious, so keep an eye on your self. If this weepiness and sadness starts getting out of control, you need to get to the doctor right away.
I hope everything is well with you and your family. Now that you've finally caught the Christmas spirit, enjoy the rest of the season. Listen to Christmas music and go out and look at the Christmas lights Rent a Christmas movie and watch it around your fire place with your husband. Most of all, have a very Merry Christmas!!!
Thanks Billy Jack. I will be okay, most days are great, I just have a few bad ones. My husband is my biggest supporter. I wouldn't make it without him.
Awww I hope you are feeling better today!! Merry Christmas!!
Bill said it beautifully :)
You know this always happens around Christmas for me, I get very sad and that is not like me at all. But I know it's a holiday thing, it's the same thing when it's my b-day. :)
Hope you feel better now and if not, you know it will pass. Merry Christmas to you and the family!!
Bobbie and Linda- thank you, to both of you.
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